Mothers gathered together with their babies in a warm living room
For the woman everyone already calls

You already have the room.
Here's something worth gathering them for.

You know every pediatrician, every sitter, every class worth taking. You've hosted the showers and organized the meal trains. People text you before they text Google.

You've built more real community by accident than most companies build on purpose.

This is the training that turns that into work you lead. In-person mother circles, in your own community, that you're paid to hold. No products. No downline. Nothing to talk anyone into.

Hold the mothers. Tend the village.
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The lost art of in-person community, rebuilt on purpose.

Not a Facebook group (though online community has its place too). Real people, in real life. Neighbors, friends, coworkers, meeting in a real room, tended by someone who knows how to hold it.

We're not just training birth workers. We're training culture-makers, because every mother who locks into real support in her first year changes what motherhood looks like for everyone around her.

One circle. One neighborhood. One held mother at a time.

Village tending is also a return to community joy. It's not just about support, it's about inviting people into your life even when it feels imperfect or messy. It's about showing up for someone you care about, even when it's inconvenient to your own life, and choosing to be there anyway.

This is culture-making, and it starts with you.

You've been doing this work for free your whole life.

You're the one people call for a recommendation, for anything and everything
You've hosted the showers, the potlucks, the birthdays that people still talk about
You know which pediatrician actually listens and which class is worth the money
You've walked a friend through a hard postpartum, or lived one yourself
You make introductions constantly, and you never think to charge for any of it
You want something of your own that means something, and you have taste about what
You have the relationships. You have the instincts. What you've never been handed is a structure worth putting them behind.

Two free tools.

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Take the Quiz

Find out what's actually standing between you and leading your own village. Four minutes, real answers, no guessing.

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2
Your First Gathering Guide

Everything you need to host your very first mother circle, room setup to conversation starters, so you're not starting from a blank page.

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Where village tending becomes your work, not just your practice.

Eight modules. A complete leadership curriculum. Everything you need to lead your own in-person mother circles with confidence, whether that's your calling as a birth worker or your next chapter as a woman who's ready to lead.

Who are the Village Tenders? Leadership doesn't have to look like a three piece suit in a corporate office. It's often the most intimate, heart centered, human centered work there is. It's about feeling something, noticing something, and caring enough to do something about it. That's leadership. That's what we're training.

I built this training for the women who are done waiting for someone else to build the room they needed. If that's you, this is it.

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The Flagship
Village Tenders Leadership Training
Format 8 modules, complete leadership curriculum
For Birth workers, doulas, and natural community connectors
Outcome Lead your own in-person mother circles
Talk With Kerry First
A real conversation, not a sales call. Tuition options and payment plans covered on the call.

Talk with Kerry first.

This training isn't right for everyone, and Kerry would rather tell you that on a call than take your money and find out later. Bring your questions. Bring your skepticism.

  • Would this actually work in my town, with the people I already know?
  • How much time does leading a circle really take each month?
  • What do women realistically earn doing this, and how soon?
  • I'm not a doula or a birth worker. Am I qualified for this?
  • What does the eight module curriculum actually cover?
Book a Consultation With Kerry

No pitch, no pressure. If it's not a fit, Kerry will say so and point you somewhere better. Tuition options and payment plans are covered on the call, so you'll know exactly what you're deciding on before you decide anything.

I'm 51. I did the sanctioned path first.

The marriage, the classroom, the boards, the performance of having it together. It handed me back to myself in pieces, the same way it's handing back a whole generation of us.

Twenty years as a birth worker taught me what midlife just confirmed: we were never meant to do this alone.

We know the importance of community, of support, of the joy women are wired to tend and be tended by. We can't rely on the systems around us to build the world we actually believe in. So we build it ourselves.

So I built the village. Here's how you build one too.
Kerry
Postpartum doula · Waldorf early childhood educator · Maternal mental health advocate · 20+ years

Ready to step into an ecosystem of support?

Village Tenders is for the leaders. If you're a mother looking for your own homecoming, not to lead a circle but to sit in one, explore our workshops, courses, and in-person retreats across California, Costa Rica, and Colorado.

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You're already living this. Get paid to point the way.

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